Have you ever met someone and felt a deep spiritual connection with them? This can be a friendship or romantic relationship. This relationship feels very special indeed. All our relationships are meaningful in some way, but this one feels different, you share a deep emotional bond, and you may feel like you have known them all your life.
When you have a spiritual connection with someone, you share a deep understanding with one another, you can be your authentic self and find it easy to be vulnerable with them. There is mutual love, respect and trust.
I believe we are all interconnected; some would even say we choose who will be a part of our life before we transcended here on earth into our physical bodies, but of all the people we meet, we have a deep and meaningful bond with very few, which is why these types of relationships should be cherished.
Below are 15 ways you can tell you have a spiritual connection with someone!
1. You engage in deep and meaningful conversations
When you feel connected to someone, the conversation goes beyond the mediocre, shallow talk and very early on, you can engage in deep talks. The kind where you can open up with one another.
You may spend hours putting the world to rights, telling one another your deepest fears and darkest secrets. This doesn’t feel awkward at all, in fact, it feels completely natural.
From these meaningful conversations, you can get to know one another on a deeper level, which means that you are likely to form a very strong bond and trust between the two of you early on.
2. You feel like you have known them a lot longer than they have
Have you ever met anyone and felt you had known them all your life? Or at least a lot longer than what you have? If you feel this way, it’s likely that you have a spiritual connection with this person.
When we first meet someone, whether we hit it off or not, it usually takes time to build trust, a sound connection and a solid friendship/relationship, after all, we have to get to know the person.
With this person, we have an instant connection with them straight away, this feeling can sometimes be hard to explain, but you just ‘get one another’. They may remind you of someone you loved and cared for deeply, or you may even feel that you have known them in a previous life.
3. You can be your authentic self
We can bring all the weird and quirky ways that we try to hide from people for fear of judgement, but when we have a spiritual connection with someone we do not have to hide these imperfections and we can be our true authentic self.
You don’t have to pretend to like things you don’t to please others, you find it easy to be honest with them and your actions and words align.
4. You can pick up when something is wrong with them, even if they hide it well
Your spidey senses are on point regarding the person you have a spiritual connection with! No matter how much they try to hide when something is wrong, you will no doubt pick up on it and help make them feel better!
I guess it is a little like a mother’s instinct to her child; you know something is off!
5. Being vulnerable with them comes naturally
Being vulnerable with someone does not come easy to some. Most of us are scared to show the parts of ourselves that we try to hide due to fear of judgement, rejection or fear that they could hurt us.
When you have a spiritual connection with someone, you don’t feel afraid to be vulnerable with them. It comes easier to this person than it does to others. According to VeryWellMind this level of intimacy is great for your relationship because vulnerability is fundamental to fostering a deeper relationship and authentic bonds.
6. You trust them
Trusting people can be challenging; some of us trust people more quickly than others, but of course, trust has to be earnt.
When you have a spiritual connection with someone, you trust their judgement, words and actions because you understand that they always have your best interests at heart.
With this particular person, you trust them reasonably quickly and early on; it’s almost like asking a Police Officer for help when you are in danger, you don’t question it, you know they will do what they can to keep you from harm’s way and they also never give you a reason to doubt them.
7. You are comfortable in one another’s silence
Ever experienced those moments with someone where there isn’t much to say, and the silence you are enduring just feels super awkward? Yeah, me too! Not the best feeling is it?
When you have a spiritual connection with someone, you feel comfortable in one another’s silence. There does not need to be a constant conversation with one another, and being in one another’s presence is enough.
You do not feel the need to talk for the sake of talking and feel no pressure to keep the conversation going, in fact, you still feel completely connected to them.
These moments of silence are normal, however when we first meet someone, we can feel pressure to keep the conversation going, and when we can’t, we may feel like we don’t have much in common with them but this is the complete opposite with your special person.
8. Everything is easy!
Easy like Sunday morning!
There are no games, no second guessing or trying to interpret certain behaviour or actions. You know exactly where you stand at all times.
There are no dramas or toxic behaviour to have to contend with. When there are difficulties you are able to sort them out in a mature, peaceful manner.
Everything is easy and flows naturally. You do not feel pressure to do certain things or act in a certain way.
9. They are fiercely loyal
You can trust that this person will defend you when you are not in the room! They will have your back no matter what and you never have to question their loyalty towards you.
10. It feels like the stars aligned when you met this person
There are no coincidences in this universe, and when you met this special person you felt like the stars aligned and it was meant to be.
Maybe this person came into your life at exactly the right time when you needed them most. Or maybe you met them under very unusual circumstances which took you completely off guard. Whatever the case, it was always meant to happen and the universe conspired to help you meet them.
11. They bring out the best in you
Having a spiritual connection with someone is not just about agreeing on everything, liking the same things and being on the same page about everything. This special person also encourages you be your best self. Maybe you are hot-tempered and they bring out the calm in you or maybe you are shy and they help you to be more outgoing.
12. You share the same values and morals
You and your special person see the world through the same eyes. Your values and morals align, which means it brings deep substance to your relationship.
13. You feel extremely grateful for them being in your life
We should feel grateful for everyone we love in our lives, and most of us would say we are, but we probably don’t always show or take the time to reflect on how grateful we are for our nearest and dearest. This is because sometimes we get busy with life and we can forget to be grateful for all we have.
When you feel a spiritual connection with someone, you feel a deep sense of gratitude for having this special person in your life and often show deep appreciation for them.
14. You can go a significant length of time without speaking and this doesn’t impact your relationship
Do you have those friendships where you can a while without speaking with one another, and when you do, it feels like nothing has changed and you only spoke to them yesterday?
You do not feel resentful, angry or like the relationship is threatened or harmed if you have not been in contact, because absence does not mean your relationship suffers.
You understand that life gets busy and hectic and it can be difficult to stay in contact, when this happens you are both satisfied with the odd check-in where you can and don’t take it personally.
15. The relationship you have is healthy
Where do I start? There are so many aspects to a healthy relationship, boundaries, respect, good communication, support for one another and mutual love.
When conflict or disagreements arise, you both handle it amicably and respectfully.
Final thoughts
Chances are, if your gut tells you this relationship feels extra special you have probably have a spiritual connection with them. This relationship will enrich your life and help you to become a better version of yourself.
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